..On women ...and men resembling them ..

..A friend once asked  me :"what a society would look like without women" .. I promptly answered , there wont BE  any society without women (used to be very fast in those days..am slower now)..Truth remains  that no matter  what the philosophers ,scientists ,psychologists , wise-guys  ,throughout the history, have said about women ...the  social value of any man is  not known to other men, but  to women instead..


...Taking into account the social,intellectual,academic,personal,professional ,physical ,spiritual ,astrological,astronomical ..and voodoo  grading (..SEPARATELY,..and not together..why's that?) ,re-accessing the values  10 times ...they would be able to tell  the  exact  score of any man out of ten ... The funny thing is that once a man settles down with a particular woman ...his scores  goes down for the rest of the lot ...ah...(why's that ?? ...maybe because of some code known only to the female fraternity )
                                                        
                                                                But,this post is NOT  about  getting an insight into women's psyche concerning  men..but what my  views are about women . Frankly , I have not given much thought to it ....have never  given much thought ... may be because , personally, I have come across very few women , whom I can truly admire ..and if one wants to flatter someone just for the sake of it..thats another thing .I  don't do that (find it too teenager-ish ).Treating men and women as equals (at least in behavior) is not that bad ,you know. ...and I think that should be taken as a compliment by the fairer sex ,too ...and by equals ,I mean ONLY  as EQUALS..because if we turn the society upside down ..then today (considering the society predominantly  being male-driven ) , when  we stand  for women emancipation ( and liberation) ..tomorrow we'll be needing organisations fighting for men's emancipation . My thoughts may seem cryptic and personal  to some of the readers but that is the way it is ...equality ,as far as men and women are concerned , can only be achieved by both men and women relying on their NATURAL abilities (..and not compromising with one's self  to become something else... an unrecognizable entity) ...and if  either  of the sexes is not that efficient at any of the MANY faculties ,which makes us human , then that is the way IT IS  ...we HAVE  to live with that ..we accept our fallacies ..just like we accept our strong points ...


                                                                              ..And some of the  women have done that ... ..corporate  world  (..and other fields,too ) have such  examples where women have matched men with equal fervor and penchant and made a life for themselves (just like men do)  ....ask them if they have compromised with their womanhood  at any point .In most of the cases,the answer would be no .Then ,how is it possible ? A world where men and women are equally making their mark ...the answer lies in the forces driving the outer world ...and its NOT  the  sexes (...or voodoo !) but A SCIENTIFIC  BEND OF MIND which refuses to get delusional  even in the most gruesome circumstances ...women , like men , WHO HAVE THAT KIND OF APTITUDE  find their place and contribute ,even surpass men . Those  who fall behind on that front , BUT UNWILLING TO COMPROMISE  with their core/moral values  quit the mainstream to support  someone they love or admire , are  EQUALLY admirable...because, most of the time , we have a mainstream professional life FOR THE SAKE OF our personal life ...and not the other  way round ..


For  , there's no point  in grudging along with one's professional life ,compromising on all fronts ...loosing one's  true identity ...becoming someone else.... just in order to prove that ONE IS EQUAL TO MEN  ..when they (the one's who compromise with their identity or don't have the aptitude to compete)   actually  are not .If they truly had been , they wont have lost their own identities and become something  else  in the process... 


                                                                                        The point is (and this is the only point) , BECOMING men is not always a necessity (..or rather should  not be) for women in order to equalize with men .It is VERY MUCH POSSIBLE without  the transformation. As long as one is able to compete/excel in one's life WITHOUT loosing one's true identity ,the person is successful   (and this goes for  most of the men ,too) .


...or else, woods is full of such creatures , who go on in their lives JUST making money ..(I know HOW they do that..but WHY they do that ...I sure don't understand). I call those creatures ...the "other" type !!                                                       


                                                            Enough of this Babaji talk...the post was suppose to be an aesthetic one  ...it went on to the professional side .I,personally, like all the woman whether white,black,brown ,yellow...orange...red as long as they have their identity intact   and have a kind heart ..and a kind face too (..if possible )...and this is, precisely because of the fact that almost all the woman (..and I am quite  sure of this ) like men , who DO NOT compromise with their manhood and are willing to provide protection to their own ...(rather than BECOMING  women and transcending to...shall I say...the "soft" side ??)..


The next post will be a classic extension of this post ..  

P.S. :: My  posts are ONLY for those people , who have that imagination to understand it properly (.. the context in which the words are used....and the idea behind any blog-post seen in totality )..prejudiced one's and  book-crammers  who can only understand any article WORD-BY-WORD ,keeping a dictionary on one side   ...can highly misinterpret it (...well ,they can misinterpret anything ..for that matter ) ...and can do without reading them...