..On women ..and men resembling them-2

Lets make no mistake in assuming something from the post title ,here . The BEST of the best ..the topmost of the so called "cream" layer ...the one's who stand out among all ..or the ONE  in a million  are always the one's who RESEMBLE  WOMEN (..or rather  who have , BESIDE MANY OTHER  QUALITIES , those  traits  which are primarily found in women ).Sensitivity , kindness, charms , a penchant for heroism , passion , unpredictability ...to name a few .Maybe because they are young , ..in their youth , less corrupted by the hypocrisies of the world , these valuable traits remains intact with them...AND MAKE NO MISTAKE ...against  those , possessing these  so called "woman-ly" qualities (besides many) ,  the  visually "BIG " men of the world,  stand no chance.. 
    
          .But..only a few who have  an eye for  recognizing elements   (...Tatva - darshi , they call it  ) can distinguish them from the rest of the lot  ...the rest of the lot ...  comprising millions  ... who glitter  themselves with these very soft qualities (grace/charms and humor ) but at the core ,lack the very fundamental qualities  like concentration ,control ,honesty, intelligence, conviction...(..maybe that's why they polish it too hard !) . The few ...described in the starting of the post...have those fundamentals intact (..very much part of their being..)...and they DEVELOP THOSE SOFT QUALITIES  ,as A PART OF THEIR COOLNESS  ...over a  longer period of time .. being with themselves ...and  CEASING  TO TAKE THEIR  manly fundamentals too heavily...and in the process ...those very fundamentals...BECOME A PART OF THEIR BEING...


                                                                  ..Bottom line :: One acquires those so called soft , woman-ly qualities ONLY and ONLY WHEN THEY STOP TO TAKE THEIR MANHOOD VERY SERIOUSLY (or in other words ..their EGO) ...and IN THE PROCESS ...those very manly qualities like control,concentration,honesty,conviction,intelligence ...becomes the very part of their being ... and gets embedded at the very core of a man ...and DEFINES HIS TRUE SELF ..or NATURE ..and the soft qualities are the one's  with which the person is identified  ON AN OUTER LEVEL..(...for the outer world only..)....soft qualities like sensitivity,kindness ,charms,even style ,...flair for the proper things in life ..a good taste ...is JUST A GIFT  given by nature ,ONLY  to those who have ..acquired their manhood in an ABSOLUTELY INSEPARABLE  manner ... (..Now, ..you'll be getting the idea.. HOW serious person I am ...)


..[Things written here can only be legible  to those,who have experienced it ,on a personal level ]


                                                    So, ladies and Gentlemen ...the moral of the story ..outcome of this whole mind-boggling post ::soft qualities ,which women are born with can only be acquired by men if they have their manly fundamentals truly intact inside them ...otherwise...nah..
A person who has those soft qualities ..a kind heart.. may not  NECESSARILY  be the BEST OF THE BEST ....but the ONE who is ,  will ALWAYS possess those soft qualities...a taste for good things in life..loving nature..a sensitive heart ....an unpredictability  ...that's for sure !

..there..I've proved it ...in a true Babaji style ,..why a soft looking person CANNOT always be taken as someone lacking on his  "man"-ly  fundamentals ..                                                                  
                                                              
                                             ...And only a few who have an eye for seeing things IN TOTALITY  can  guess about the proper identity of a being...his true nature . Otherwise ,woods is  full of creatures who do not know difference between an orange  and a hollow tennis ball .. 




P.S. ::This post ...I am keeping short...'coz I do not feel like writing much ...next post will be properly written ..Thanks ..